Dog Training: Do the Math

Matt
Thursday, April 2nd 2009 3:19pm
Dog Training, Sit Quietly

The trouble with dog training is that it's hard to boil it down to a few key points. I'm always trying to think of ways to sum it up, but it takes thought, and learning, and work.

One tool you can use when you're starting out is to do the math. That is, how would this advice lead to my dog doing what I want? If you can do the math, the advice might be good. But if not, you definitely know it's not good advice. Let's try some examples.

I read a blog just the other day, that said this:

Never give treats for toileting in the proper place, for instance or for not biting the neighbor’s kid- he needs to learn those things to function within the family.

This is a great example of really horrible advice. First the person is telling you not to praise the dog for doing good things. Second he tells you what needs to happen instead. So do the math.

  • I want my dog to potty in the correct place.
  • I shouldn't give them treats.
  • My dog needs to learn to potty in the correct place.

See? This advice is bad because it doesn't at all tell you how to get from where you are to where you want to be. You can probably completely discard such advice, because you have no reason to believe this advice is in any way good. For instance, giving treats would actually be good here. It would have been unhelpful to say the overall advice was bad but to hang onto that one piece of it.

Let's try another one. Say your dog is barking at strangers and you would like this to stop and you receive this advice.

Be the pack leader.

Let's do the math:

  • I would like my dog to stop barking at strangers.
  • I should be the pack leader.

Again, this doesn't work. This advice in no way gets you from where you are to where you want to be. You're not dumb. You're not just not getting it. It's bad, unhelpful advice.

Let's try some more advice for this barking problem:

  1. When you see someone approaching, have your dog sit (don't know how yet? see other advice).
  2. When they are quiet for five seconds, give them a treat.
  3. If they seem to be escalating rather than calming, go ahead and move them away from the person.
  4. After moving far enough away that they seem to feel safe, try to have them sit and be quiet for 5 seconds, and then give them a treat.
  5. This will teach them good things happen when people approach and they sit quietly. They also will start to think of people approaching as a good opportunity for them to get a treat.
  6. Over time, maybe a lot of time, you will notice your dog calming down around strangers.

Well this advice even comes in the form of math. It specifically tells you how to get from where you are to where you want to be. It covers "what if" situations and has a note that it may take time. You may not know this is good advice, but you know it might be, because at least the math makes sense. You'll have to try it to find out.

Other forms of bad advice I've seen to look out for, they share a common tone.

  • It is unacceptable for dogs to go potty in the house.
  • Your dog needs to understand they can't bark inside.
  • I wouldn't put up with that! Say "no" in a stern voice!
  • My dog knows he's not allowed to sit on the couch!

What happens is sometimes people end up training their dog, or their dog just gets the picture, and they don't know how it happened. So give advice like this, taking credit for something they didn't really do. They will claim it was their authority that the dog sensed and then was "good". These people don't know what they talking about, and you shouldn't feel at all bad for just writing their advice off. Just keep looking, someone will eventually have advice where the math makes sense, where it feels right, where there's actually a list of steps to do!

I should just add, that advice that involves hurting your dog is also bad, even if the math kind of works. Yes, if you hit your dog, you can get them to not do all sorts of things, but then they will just start biting you because you hit them. It doesn't ever work out.

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Tuesday, April 7th 2009 8:41am

– No –

The point of mentioning the “no” advice was not to say that the word “no” is bad, which I didn’t say, and I don’t believe. We may differ here, but to me, “no” is not a solution, it’s a communication.

For instance:

1. Kody sit
2. [Kody doesn't sit]
3. No [can be said softly, to communicate he's not doing what I want]
4. Kody sit [make sure he has positive motivation to sit]
5. [Kody sits!]
6. Good sit!

I use “no”, but only to communicate that’s not what I’m looking for. People who don’t know much about training think that “no” will solve all their problems. It’s the only tool they have, and it of course doesn’t work. When it doesn’t work they think they just need to be sterner when saying it. Or be the pack leader or whatever.

They don’t realize, unfortunately, that they just need to learn how to train a dog. Which is what I’m telling them. But I know they’re going to get there in baby steps.

Those are the people my blog is speaking to. The people who don’t have a dog trainer and would have never thought of hiring one.

– Hitting –

I didn’t say and wasn’t saying that hitting was an accepted practice used by dog trainers. I talk about it because “normal” people will be tempted to spank their dog for going potty in the house, or use a rolled up newspaper, or what have you. They will get this advice from others.

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